Guests and visitors in a shared house
Visitors are part of life, but in a shared house they also use shared space. A little courtesy goes a long way.
Agree norms early
- Talk to housemates about overnight guests, how often, and how much notice feels fair.
- Tell housemates when a guest is staying, particularly if they will use the kitchen or bathroom.
- Keep noise down late at night and before early shifts; see shift work in a shared house.
Security
- You are responsible for your guests. Do not give out keys or door codes, and make sure the front door is closed behind them.
- Guests should stay in your room and the shared areas, not in other people's rooms.
Check your agreement
Tenancy agreements may limit overnight guests or long stays. A visitor is different from someone who effectively lives in the room, which usually needs the landlord's agreement and may affect bills; see your tenancy agreement. If you are unsure, ask in writing.
If it causes friction
Raise it calmly and early. See living with housemates.
This is general information, not legal advice. See how renting with us works.
Common questions
Can I have friends or family to stay in my room?
Short visits are normally fine, but agreements can limit overnight guests or long stays. Check yours and ask your landlord if unsure.
Should I tell my housemates about guests?
Yes, a quick message is polite, especially for overnight stays or if the guest will use the kitchen or bathroom.
Can a partner move in?
Not without the landlord's agreement. Someone living in the room long term is different from a visitor, and may affect the tenancy and bills.